By Jessica Festa, Lead Guide; Featured+ Pinterest images taken on a Private Photo Journey
Opportunities for romance in NYC go beyond stealing a kiss atop the Empire State Building (though of course, this is whimsical experience, as well!).
Whether you’re looking for an ambient meal, want to spend time outdoors or are eager to explore the city’s most hidden places, we’ve got you covered with 73 experiences across all five boroughs — and even a bit of Long Island!
Read on to plan your perfect outing for you and your sweetheart.
No matter how you choose to explore romance in NYC, don’t forget your photos! Along with offering photo tours, we photograph events and engagements, and even couple’s outings exploring the city. Email [email protected] with inquiries.
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Romance In NYC In Multiple Boroughs
1. Have your photos taken around the city
You know when you ask a stranger to take a photo of you and your love, but your heads are chopped off, or everything is blurry?
Say goodbye to bad photos on our Private NYC Photo Journey.
Part tour, part photo shoot, the itinerary is based on your interests.
Your licensed New York City sightseeing guide is also a photographer, and you’ll leave with professional shots of you and your significant other to keep.
2. Get tipsy while painting
Who doesn’t love a good couple’s paint night in NYC?
The Painting Lounge offers BYOB paint classes in Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens.
Because it’s a step-by-step course, you’ll actually leave with something worth framing.
3. Learn the art of trapeze
As you can see, couples’ classes in NYC abound, and this one is quirky.
At Trapeze School New York, you and your love can learn the art of this circus act, with classes focusing on everything from silks to static trapeze and beyond.
Take a class at their year-round Brooklyn location or their outdoor warm-weather location in Manhattan.
4. Volunteer together
One way to get closer to your love is to give back.
Local volunteer opportunities abound, though the best way to find them is on the Deed app
You’ll be given a list of opportunities with dates, times and available slots. With one click, you can sign up to help.
New York Cares, which offers thousands of opportunities across limitless issues, from helping adults with special needs to volunteering with animals to tutoring children after school and beyond.
5. Attend a secret concert
Sofar Sounds puts on pop-up concerts in secret locations around the city.
While the concert address won’t be given until you book, you’ll be provided some information to get a sense of the scene, such as that it’s a Bob Marley tribute concert in someone’s East Village living room, or that it’s an accessible-friendly public venue hidden from the main streets.
6. Battle each other on retro video games
Barcade — which has locations in Brooklyn and Manhattan — is one of the best places for dates in NYC, particularly of the casual sort.
Offering a variety of craft beers as well as an impressive array of old school video games, it’s the perfect place to go back in time while getting buzzed.
7. Combine bridges and trams
Nothing says romance in New York City quite like a kiss in front of a movie-famous bridge or skyline.
For an afternoon stroll full of views, walk over the Queensborough Bridge from Long Island City to the Upper East Side in Manhattan.
From there, head to 59th Street and 2nd Avenue to swipe your Metrocard and gain access to the Roosevelt Island Tram.
The short ride offers some of the best views in NYC of the East River, One World Trade Center, the Empire State Building and the Chrysler Building.
Once on Roosevelt Island, wander around to take in vistas of the Queens and Manhattan skylines.
8. Explore authentic cultures in local kitchens
If you’re looking for a couple’s cooking class in NYC, here is a unique idea:
League of Kitchens gives you access to local immigrant homes, where you support them by paying for a cooking class and cultural lesson.
Bring containers, as you’ll likely have leftovers from your enlightening feast.Searching for romantic things to do in #Manhattan? We've got you covered! #NYC #romance via @NYCPhotoJourney
Romance In Manhattan
9. Hit the rooftop of a pod hotel
Sprawling vines up brick walls and terracotta columns give this rooftop a European feel at Pod 39 Hotel, though the taco cart and margaritas will transport you to Mexico.
Take in views of the Empire State Building, One World Trade Center, the Chrysler Building and the East River.
10. Take a free salsa class
At 6pm on Wednesdays at Iguana, you’ll get complimentary salsa and bachata lessons.
There are happy hour drinks, too!
Choose from one of their 28 flavors of margaritas or mojitos. Just be aware these cocktails are quite strong.
Along with being fun, this is one of the best double date spots in NYC.
11. Pair dinner with free flamenco
If you’re looking for cheap dates in NYC, you can’t get more affordable than this.
Head to Socarrat Paella Bar in Nolita on a Tuesday night for a free flamenco show from 7pm-10pm.
To up the romance, we suggest ordering a glass of their tasty sangria, too!
One of the most romantic ways to experience New York?
Get out of the city!
We love driving from Manhattan to the stunning 1000 Islands, full of great things to do for couples and adventures along the way.
13. Chill out in a friendly New York wine bar
Lois in the Lower East Side is probably NYC’s most chill wine bar.
Along with having wine on tap, there’s a no-tipping policy!
14. See a burlesque show
Located in the Lower East Side, the Slipper Room is an intimate burlesque club that has been putting on steamy variety shows since 1999.
If you’re looking for fun winter date ideas in NYC, this is certainly a great way to warm up, though you’ll have a blast in any season.
15. Travel To Japan (Without Leaving NYC)
Located within The Kitano Hotel New York is Hakubai, an authentic Kaiseki restaurant serving up dishes like Miyazaki A5-grade Wagyu beef, Komochi Kombu (herring roe with kelp) and Ika Ichiya Boshi (grilled lightly-dried squid).
This is all served at carefully timed intervals on an exquisite array of porcelain, pottery, and lacquer dishware.
To up the NYC romance factor, slip off your shoes and dine in a private Tatami room on rice straw mats.
16. Steal a kiss at the top of Belvedere Castle
Built in 1869, this Central Park attraction offers sweeping views over the Great Lawn and The Ramble.
17. Sing your heart out over dueling pianos
Every Saturday night at 10pm, you and your sweetheart can attend one of the best dating events in NYC:
The city’s biggest all-request rock-and-roll party, Shake Rattle & Roll Dueling Pianos.
It’s a sing-along dance-along with talented musicians playing everything from Billy Joel to Bon Jovi to Britney Spears.
18. See the whole city from your seat
For the ultimate fine dining experience, The View in Midtown not only serves up gourmet steaks and seafood, but revolves a full 360-degrees every hour so you’re never without, well, a view.
19. Savor romance through chocolate classes in NYC
At Tache Artisan Chocolate in the Lower East Side, you and your love will learn about cacao from cultivation through tasting, even making your own treats to savor.
Think chocolate mustache lollipops, French chocolate clusters, bars, kisses and more.
The class includes gorgeous wrapping for your creations.
20. Take a helicopter tour over the city
On a Scenic Helicopter Tour, you’ll snuggle up with your other half for 18-20 minutes to take in sweeping aerial views of Governor’s Island, the Hudson River, the Empire State Building, the Chrysler Building, and other NYC gems.
21. Chill out in a salt cave
Did you know there are salt caves in Manhattan?
At Montauk Salt Cave in the East Village, you and your partner can chill out in a relaxing Himalayan pink salt-lined room.
Not only is this a unique NYC experience, but it also has anti-inflammatory benefits and reduces stress.
They offer classes like Reiki and yoga in the salt cave!
22. Have an adventurous meal
You know what they say:
The couple that eats ants together, stays together.
And hey, even if nobody ever said that you’ll still get to enjoy one of the more weird date ideas in NYC at Black Ant in the East Village.
Here, beautifully plated food takes on a creative edge, with certain dishes — like the guacamole with black ant salt and the tacos with grasshopper-crusted shrimp — also featuring insects.
23. Explore the Met Museum, alone
On an EmptyMet Tour, you and your partner can visit the famed art museum before it opens to the public, taking in over 5,000 years of art without the crowds.
Not morning people?
24. Learn the Lindy Hop
Harlem is the birthplace of the Lindy Hop, and on a Swing Dance Walking Tour of the neighborhood, you’ll not only see historic sites relating to the dance form but will also end with a swing dance class.
25. Go back in time to the Harlem Renaissance
At Red Rooster Harlem, you can have an elevated soul food meal — don’t miss the hot honey chili sauce-laced chicken and waffles — before heading downstairs to take in a show at Ginny’s Supper Club (where the same menu is also served).
It’ll be one of the tastiest, liveliest, and romantic date nights you’ve had in a while.
26. Have a meal at Max Brenner’s
Also known as Chocolate by the Bald Man NYC, this cacao-centric restaurant in Union Square serves up hearty meals, though the real highlight is the extensive dessert menu.
Order a salted caramel hot chocolate, then pair with an Oreo-laced milkshake, S’mores fondue or chocolate cheesecake creme brulee.
Two spoons, please!
27. Dine in the dark
At Camaje in Greenwich Village, you can attend one of their Dine in the Dark dinners, a delicious albeit completely unilluminated experience meant to heighten your senses of smell and taste.
28. Take in river views from Fort Tryon Park
Featuring 66 acres, this hilly park offers scenic paths leading to views of the Hudson River, Palisades, and the George Washington Bridge.
Nearby you can visit the Met Cloisters, a scenic branch of the Met Museum focused on the art, architecture, and gardens of medieval Europe.
29. Take a budget-friendly seafood cruise
During the warmer months, you’ll pay just $10 to take a spin on the North River Lobster Co boat, which leaves from Pier 81.
It’s one of the most scenic and cheap romantic things to do in NYC.
If you’re hungry, lobster rolls, crab-topped salads and other seafood delights — along with booze — can be purchased on board.
30. Have an immersive rooftop experience
Forget dinner theater; at the Gallow Green rooftop cocktail bar, you’ll be served in a whimsical garden by cast members of Sleep No More, the immersive show where you follow characters through macabre scenes based on Shakespeare’s Macbeth.
In need of a winter date idea?
The equally romantic Lodge — a rustic space with covering — serves hot boozy drinks.
31. See a Broadway show (on a budget)
There’s no denying there are some great shows to be seen on Broadway; though often the pricing can be out of your budget.
Search the TodayTix app for discounts on unsold seats, and use the money you saved for a nice dinner nearby.
We love the New American menu at BEA.
32. Pair Master Sommelier-sourced wines with unique bites
At the chill yet classy Aldo Sohm Wine Bar in Midtown, the sommeliers really know their stuff.
During this memorable wine pairing dinner in NYC, your vino is paired with one-of-a-kind plates like chicken salt-seasoned cauliflower, foie gras lollipops and warm goat cheese potato parfait on arugula.
33. Splurge on a heavenly penthouse suite overlooking Hell’s Kitchen
At Kimpton Ink 48 Hotel’s two-storey Heaven over Hell Penthouse Suite, highlights include a king bed-equipped bedroom, an oversized bathroom with a double vanity, shower and soaking tub, a separate dining room and sitting area, a private rooftop terrace and, the main attraction, panoramic views of the city skyline and Hudson River through floor-to-ceiling windows.
Note, though, that this is a true splurge at $3000 per night.
34. Learn how to give each other great massages
Don’t the best date night activities in NYC include massages?
At the Love Institute in Midtown West, you can opt for a group massage or private massage class.
By the end of the session, you’ll forever have a way to make your partner feel special after a long day.
35. Go back in time with absinthe
At the William Barnacle Tavern in the East Village, you can sip absinthe prepared in the bohemian style — complete with a sugar cube set on fire and infused under an ice water drip into the drink.
This space operated as a nightclub during Prohibition, and the original bar used to seat guests like Al Capone and Lucky Luciano.
Attached to the bar, Foxface Sandwiches serves up creative culinary creations between thick slabs of bread.
36. Learn to cook with (and for) your love
The Institute of Culinary Education offers recreational classes that allow you and your sweetheart to gain a new skill you can also use to up the romance later.
In terms of date night classes in NYC, they offer a Couples Cooking series focused on Tuscan meals, Thai favorites, Sushi and Sake, and more.
37. Spark the magic (literally)
Tannen’s Magic Store in Midtown West is not only NYC’s oldest magic shop since 1925, but is staffed with magicians who will happily perform tricks to show off their cool products.
Only a six-minute walk away you’ll also find the Houdini Museum.
38. Check out a sensual exhibit
The Museum of Sex is an educational experience for couples and singles alike, and they always have interesting rotating exhibits like “Female Gaze” and “Universe Of Desire: Why We Like What We Like.”From famous carousels to raw chocolate and cocktails, we've got the best romantic things to do in #NewYorkCity covered! via @NYCPhotoTour #NYC #romance
Romance In Brooklyn
39. Savor the natural flavors of raw chocolate
Did you know that most mainstream chocolate is roasted at such high temperatures, they need to add loads of sugar and milk to add flavor back?
Not at Fine & Raw Chocolate Factory, where quality cacao beans are roasted at under 140 degrees Fahrenheit to preserve their natural characteristics.
Free samples are available (try the lucuma & vanilla!) and an open factory allows you to see exactly how it’s made.
Visiting the factory is one of the top things to do in Bushwick!
40. Stroll diverse and beautiful flora
While brainstorming romantic date ideas in NYC, it’s likely your mind will wander at some point to flowers and gardens.
And while the Brooklyn Botanic Garden is worth a visit year-round, it’s especially exciting in winter.
Well, this is when you can attend the spicy Chili Pepper Fiesta, a wonderland of free samples of sauces, kimchees, chutneys, and spicy chocolate.
No matter what time of year you go, the Japanese Hill-and-Pond Garden is a highlight for romance.
41. Have your photo taken with confetti
Our friend Jelena is the creator of The Confetti Project, and you and your partner can visit her Bushwick studio to play in confetti while taking photos that tell the story of your love.
You’ll even get a profile made on her website (if you’d like).
42. Learn the art of ax throwing
What’s more romantic than trying something new?
At Kick Axe in Gowanus, you and your special someone can grab a beer — and an ax — and try to hit the target in one of 10 throwing ranges.
43. Make your own momentos
Talk about fun dates places in NYC!
At Brooklyn Glass, also in Gowanus, they offer day-long glassblowing workshops.
You’ll leave with your own one-of-a-kind piece, from swizzle sticks to glass flowers and beyond.
44. Have a craft cocktail at Westlight
On the 22nd floor of the William Vale Hotel sits Westlight, a gorgeous cocktail bar and restaurant offering true 360-degree views from floor-to-ceiling glass windows, as well as from their outdoor terrace (open year-round).
Because it’s in Brooklyn across the East River, you also see the full Manhattan skyline.
45. Clink glasses at the world’s first commercially viable rooftop winery
Rooftop Reds — located within the Brooklyn Navy Yard — holds this impressive title.
During warmer months, you can visit their aerial spaces for wonderful views and equally wonderful glasses of Bordeaux.
46. Ride the carousel
One of the most famous carousels in NYC — Jane’s Carousel — resides in Brooklyn Bridge Park.
You and your beau can hold hands and be kids again while riding a (carved wooden) horse-drawn carriage.
47. Go the indie route
At Nitehawk Cinema in Williamsburg, they play indie films paired with tasty dishes (hello truffle popcorn!) and craft cocktails so good you’ll be shocked you’re in a movie theater.
Don’t miss their themed series, like Film Feasts (movies paired with relevant bites); Spoons, Tunes & Booze (all-you-can-eat cereal, cartoons and drinks); and Love (romance films and kinky flicks shown at midnight on weekends).
It’s definitely one of the more fun things to do in Williamsburg.
48. Do an eight-course pasta tasting
At Faro, they pay homage to Italy’s favorite carb.
Making over 100 types of pasta using organic semolina wheat milled daily onsite, their Friday / Saturday Chef’s Tasting allows you to try five of them (plus two starters and dessert).
Fingers crossed that the delicious saffron-infused Corzetti — with scallops, pine nuts and pimentos — is on the menu.
This is a truly unique NYC tasting experience you won’t want to miss!
49. Dress each other in body paint
At Den Art Body Painting Studio in Greenpoint, you and your honey can learn to paint each other with glow-in-the-dark UV paint.
Both private and public classes offered.
They donate a portion of profits to International Justice Mission to fight against human trafficking.
50. Pair chocolate with booze (and boozy chocolate)
At Nunu Chocolates’ Boerum Hill and Park Slope locations, you can pair house-crafted chocolates with glasses of craft beer and wine.
Or, you can go with their two-for-one option and order chocolates in flavors like mezcal chili, moonshine, and amarula.
51. Have an artisan day
At Industry City in Sunset Park, you can see artisan vendors making everything from food to jewelry to pillows and beyond.
Don’t miss Li-Lac Chocolates — Manhattan’s oldest chocolate company — decorating their treats by hand (a la Lucy-and-Ethel style).
Even better, you can click here to grab tickets for an Industry City tour!
52. Ride the Ferris Wheel (and the Cyclone)
Is there anything that screams “fun dates in New York” like Coney Island?
We think not.
During warmer months, visiting Coney Island is a must for couples.
Hop around Luna Park for a thrill and to win a stuffed animal or two, then grab a hot dog (either from Nathan’s Famous or Feltman’s of Coney Island, the real inventor of the hot dog) before hitting the boardwalk and beach.Love is in the air in #NewYorkCity! To plan the perfect date night, check out these 73 ideas for romance in #NYC. 🙂 via @NYCPhotoTour
Romance In Queens
53. Mix comedy and cocktails
At The Standing Room, you’ll pay just $10 to be entertained by local standup comedians.
To sweeten (or liquor up) the date, bartenders craft inventive cocktails — some served in lightbulbs.
A fan favorite is “The Smoke” featuring bourbon, ancho chile, cynar, house bitters, and, the best part, fire!
This is a great pick if you’re looking for casual date ideas in NYC.
54. Pair wine with live music on the water
At the waterfront BLVD Wine Bar in Long Island City, you’ll savor delicious dishes like lobster mac and cheese, squid ink risotto and mussels with drinkable broth paired with a budget-friendly bottle of wine.
While dinner is exquisite, their weekend brunches add live music to the mix on Saturdays and Sundays from 12-3pm.
Plus, you’ll have prime views of the Manhattan skyline from Queens.
55. See a show at Forrest Hills Stadium
They’ve always got diverse musical acts, not to mention big names, at this al fresco stadium, which has a surprisingly intimate feel.
A few acts that have graced the stage since its heyday in 60s and 70s include The Rolling Stones, Bob Dylan, and Mumford & Sons.
56. Do a beer crawl of Long Island City
Looking for fun things to do in Long Island City?
If brews are your thing, you and your partner will love the beer scene in this neighborhood.
Breweries abound, a few of which include LIC Beer Project, Fifth Hammer Brewing or, our favorite for their quirky options, Big aLICe.
57. Have a beach day
Queens is home to one of NYC’s most popular swim spots:
The Rockaway Beach and Boardwalk, with lots of sand, shops, and parties during the warmer months.
Sip a beer and listen to summer tunes on the Rockaway Beach Bus, which picks up from Manhattan and Brooklyn.
Between 67-69 Street and 87-92 Street resides NYC’s only legal surfing beach.
There’s also a fun floating water park, which you can buy tickets to here.
58. Get nostalgic at an old-fashioned soda shop
In Forest Hills, you’ll find Eddie’s Sweet Shop.
Dedicated to old timey ice cream, the soda shop has been open since 1909.
Expect a mix of classic and modern treats like rum raisin ice cream, banana splits, and cookies and cream pie in a retro space.
59. Have a retro Greek meal
Speaking of nostalgia, the 24-hour Bel Aire Diner in Astoria has been open since 1965, paying homage to the neighborhood’s history and rich Greek culture (though you’ll also find American, Italian and Mexican favorites, too).
60. Mix al fresco art with views
At Socrates Sculpture Park in Long Island City, you can stroll through multi-media installations while taking in East River views.
There’s also plenty of green space for a romantic picnic.
If you’d rather have a knowledgeable local show you around, opt for an art tour of Queens.Looking for a romantic date in the #Bronx? Check out #62 for the best location to steal a kiss! #NYC via @NYCPhotoTour
Romance In The Bronx
61. Eat your way through the real Little Italy
While Manhattan’s Little Italy is on the brink of extinction, Arthur Avenue in the Bronx is rich with Italian culture.
On an Arthur Avenue Food Tour, you’ll learn about the history of the thoroughfare while savoring locally-made pastries, cheese, bread and more.
62. Take in a waterfall
At Bronx Park — home to the famous Bronx Zoo and New York Botanical Garden — steal a kiss while walking along the well-forested Bronx River.
The river runs through a deep gorge, and you’ll even see the 13-foot-high Bronx River Waterfall near the Bronx Zoo entrance.
63. Savor a romantic meal at unpretentious NYC restaurants
Whether you’re sampling the fried chicken benny at brunch (with $18 free-flowing alcohol add-on) or the pan-seared salmon at dinner, Charlie’s Bar & Kitchen offers a delicious experience in an ambient space.
While the yummy local beers and wine are worth a taste, the cocktails are the true star.
The spicy “Manson” featuring tequila, lime juice, chili-laced agave, and cucumber.
64. Get lost in an urban oasis
The 250-acre New York Botanical Garden in the Bronx is absolutely stunning, a National Historic Landmark founded in 1891 and featuring walking paths lined with dozens of plant collections, lakes, waterfalls, birdlife and more.
65. Have a zip-line adventure
Trying new things is a great way to grow your relationship.
At Bronx Zoo Treetop Adventure, managed by the Wildlife Conservation Society, you can choose between riding dual zip lines through the trees and/or climbing obstacle courses.Looking for #romance in #NYC on a budget? #66 on this list is free! #StatenIsland via @NYCPhotoTour
Romance In Staten Island
66. Take the Staten Island Ferry
On a budget?
The 30-minute ride on the Staten Island Ferry is a completely free afternoon date idea in NYC.
It includes gorgeous views of the Statue of Liberty, too.
You can purchase craft beers at a shop inside the terminal before boarding to enjoy on the boat.
67. Have a “nonna”-made meal
At Enoteca Maria, you and your date can savor meals cooked by grandmas from around the world.
Menus rotate, and on any given night you may savor dishes from Peru, Italy, Ukraine, Sri Lanka, Turkey, Bulgaria, Siberia and beyond!
68. Traipse through tranquil Asian gardens
At the New York Chinese Scholar’s Garden in Snug Harbor, you and your sweetheart can stroll hand-in-hand through a landscape based on the Ming Dynasty Gardens (1368-1644).
Some features include koi ponds, lovely pavilions, moon gates, waterfalls, and bamboo forests.
69. Hit the shore
At the 2.5-mile Franklin D. Roosevelt Boardwalk and Beach, you and your date can go for a dip in the Atlantic Ocean or just enjoy facilities like a kayak launch site, sports fields, and barbecue areas.
70. Take a camping trip
You can take a $20 cab ride from the Staten Island ferry terminal to the 75-acre Henry Kaufmann Campgrounds for a fun weekend camping trip.
From the grounds, you’ll have access to numerous hiking trails, including the Staten Island Greenbelt.On this list, #71 is a must-do if you're looking for fun things to do with your date on #LongIsland via #NYCPhotoTour
Romance In Long Island
You can DIY this trip via public transportation or book a private limo or guided tour (recommended).
Long Island is home to over 50 wineries, not to mention whimsical farmstands, beaches, hiking trails and more, so it’s definitely worth at least a day trip, if not longer.
72. Hike with seals
When visiting Montauk State Park it’s common to see adorable harbor seals.
You can go on a self-guided three-mile hike, or go on one the park’s naturalist-guided weekend walks.
73. Explore the Gold Coast
Along Long Island’s famed Gold Coast, you’ll find beautiful mansions and gardens to explore.
The Gold Coast is what the Great Gatsby is based on!
What’s your favorite way to celebrate romance in NYC? Please share in the comments below!
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